Talk:Tatars/@comment-2003:DB:F709:7FC8:59B8:B7A7:1D0:A1B6-20191122140948/@comment-2003:DB:F709:7F32:356C:59B3:8C5:4B7C-20191220151817

(addition) ... or to put it in much less words than that:
 * "And I do DESPISE people who allege to know about ulterior thoughts of someone they just met, w/o any sufficient ground for such allegations. You are not the center of the world, and your feelings don't give you the right to treat others like garbage just because you don't like what they are saying, cupcake!"

See how that feels? How about arguing in good faith instead and keeping everything non-personal?... we'd all benefit from that, and debates most above all!

Besides: if you actually read what I laid out, the whole "esp. if they aren't helping" falls flat on it's face. I gave plenty of rationales, that should help shed light on the issue. If, however, you merely don't like me commenting anonymously, then, well: shugs. I rather stay in the dark for the most part, and have a couple of bad experiences about how hostile and toxic ingroups can treat outsiders and newcomers, if they are a bit too critically (case and poijnt: your very reaction!), so I rather not expose myself to the disappointing experience, of being ousted for being, you know: critical... because that's just who I am. I am, therefore I think [critically]. It's very cumbersome/wearing for me to constantly put up with people expecting me to treat on eggshells all the time (basically meaning: to expect me to be someone else when they are around. A very egocentric thing of them to expect [from me], tbh.), which usually results in me turning my back in disappointment.